While many military spouse move home to be with thier family during a deployment, I have choosen not to. My family on the other hand thinks that I should drop everything and move back "home" with them. Yet I refuse to and here is the simple answer. My home is with my husband, my husband abd I have made Fort polk our home unitl we get out of the military. My home is where I am loved. While I know my family likes me they do not love. My husband(who is the greatest husband and father) has given up his freedom until 2009 so that I would feel love. My husband loves me regardless of the mistakes I have made.(which have been many). Home is where my husband is and right now my home is fort polk.
Also my family has never ever been supportive of me would never help me relaize my dreams of being a socila worker, yet my hsuband has taken on a 60k debt so that I can provide a better life for my kids.
Yet I do plan to go to my parnets home for visit I will never truly feel at home there because the man I love is fighting for our freedom.